Los Arcos has two private poolside garden guest rooms separate from the main house. Sauna for men with indoor and outdoor pools, steam room and Hindu themed decor. What those large-scale paintings don't reveal is Merida's modern role as a magnet for American expats -- many of whom are gay and have opened restaurants, hotels and shops throughout this city of 1 million. Thursdays draw the largest local crowd because it's often the night without a cover charge. Perhaps it helps that we are more mature gay men and are not really involved in the gay community, nor do we frequent gay bars or participate in Gay Pride events. That perhaps is a small reason why we experience no discrimination. Homosexuality in Mexico.
I am told that there are gay clusters in the northern part of the city, and I have heard of a private club somewhere in the north, but I have no personal knowledge of them.
All Rights Reserved. Being a lesbian whether here or in the states is just another wrinkle in that challenge. In Merida, we have seen considerable numbers of middle-aged gay foreigners who have entered into relationships with younger gay men, most of whom are closeted to their families.
One is a close friend and although we are not Catholic, we plan to have a consecration event here sometime soon.